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Cultural Clash برخورد فرهنگی

People tend to remember God and his mercy in the time of distress particularly when they face problem, stress and disappointments. The Afghan refugees in Europe are living a life similar of the one in the hell because of different kinds of discrimination, financial sanctions and racism. Their level of depression is the highest and they live in a trauma even without knowing about it. Some of them can’t survive that situation and they kill themselves and it does not come on the media due to the media bias. When you look at their faces in the refugee camps, even their faces do not have the normal color and it makes you remind the faces of those Afghan hostages caught by the Taliban. In the normal circumstances when you look their faces, it is usually red and tan but when they are afraid of something that color turns into pale and shows a whiter face without blood circulation in the skin. I had seen so many of those frightened faces during the war in Afghanistan many years before, but it was usually temporary like for one week or so when the rocket was fired inside the house of a neighbor.

But in Europe, it is not temporary because there is no hope that the situation will change for Afghan refugees in the near future, because the situation of the refugees are dependent on the mentality of the people of the host countries. If the mentalities of the people of the host country do not change positively towards the immigration, the situation would never change. To change the mentality of the people of the host countries, the media and the education system can play a better role. They should have cultural diversity programs and they need start working for freedom of religion and belief as well as freedom of expression in order to eradicate racism and discrimination in the host countries.  
When you go to refugee camps, you will find Afghan refugees rising in the number even more than Iraqis and Syrians who also escaped the same war in their respective countries.

Even those who were not religious in Afghanistan will tend to remember God and pray for their situation and ask God to help them in finding a better life or for surviving the harsh discrimination of the environment which is not always very friendly but sometimes harsh and hostile.

In Afghanistan when Muslim people pray for a death person but not the Hindus and Sikhs, they organize a religious ceremony and cook lots of good food and invite people to read all pages of Quran in one day which is called “Khatme Quran”, a hard work for a single person to do, that’s why they have to invite so many people so that everyone can read some chapters to get the job done so that the recompense will go to the death person and he shall be blessed in the other world. They have to pray in Arabic because the religion comes with an Arabic language and they don’t know and they don’t speak that language, so when they need to pray, they have to read some pages of the Holy Book Quran which is written in Arabic with the same alphabet as the language of the people of Afghanistan. Some of them read the translation in Dari if they have got a little bit of education at school and know how to read Dari. Some people can’t read and write but feel shy to say that they can’t read. They take some pages and move their lips and make some noises to show and pretend as if they are reading it with themselves. Most people don’t know what they read and what does those lines in Arabic mean due to the high rate of illiteracy in the country as an impact of the war in Afghanistan. But they are sure for one thing, and that is that reading Quran has “Sawaab” which means “recompense” and it is a good thing and God likes those who read Quran and he will pay them back in some ways in this world or in the next.

I was invited to a refugee camp run by the Red Cross where Afghan refugees including men, women and children were afraid of the uncertain future of their asylum application. They brought an electronic kettle from a hidden cupboard and asked another Afghan boy to watch outside so that the social workers of camp should not arrive suddenly to catch them while boiling water and making some green tea for their guest. I asked them why were they hiding their teapot and glasses? “Alcohol drinking was a crime in Afghanistan and you escaped that situation and came to Europe and now here drinking tea is a crime or what?” I told them.  

“No, they made some kind of stupid rules and regulations here for us that we don’t have to make tea or cook our own food in this camp because they want us to eat and drink what they give us. We don’t really know whether what they give us is Hallaal (allowed in Islam) or Harraam (forbidden in Islam) but we have to eat and drink what they give us in order to survive. They give us tea and water only three times a day, but we don’t drink black tea, we make our own green tea here” answered one of the guys in that camp and continued “there are many Afghan refugees here who lived here for more than 8 years without a positive answer from their asylum application and they are depressed and almost lost their senses and they are now kind of crazy saying irrelevant things and sometimes crying and sometimes laughing, may Allah help us all, I think we came to the wrong place” he said.

“Allah doesn’t work here” shouted the other guy. “Here is the territory of the Jesus and only he can save us from his own followers” smiled the guy and all others laughed.

“Gandhi was so right about the Christians when he said that he loves Jesus the Christ but his followers are so unlike to him” another boy who seemed to be more educated than others quoted Gandhi.

“He is right” shouted the other guy. “Tell him the story of Fahim and what happened to him and his friends” he suggested pouring some warm green tea for me in a partly broken glass of his own. “This glass is barakati (blessed)” he told me pointing at his own glass. It has traveled with me many countries and that is why I love it a lot.

“Fahim and all his other four friends who were living in different refugee camps had undergone unwanted belly operations in the same way when they wanted to make an appointment for a dentist, for a disinfection of an injury or went to hospital because of health checkups” said one of the guys in the refugee camp “and they all are complaining of the same bellyache now” said the boy. “They think that this is a hostile attack on Afghan Muslim refugees who are living in the camps and warns everyone else to be careful about such kind of unwanted operations” continued the boy.


One of the guys came in and asked everybody to join a praying for a better situation of Afghan refugees organized by an Afghan refugee in the other room. We all went to the other refugee room and the guy borrowed from a mosque a whole Quran printed in separated chapters for everyone to read so that Allah will recompense the good deed and improve the situation of Afghan refugees. First he asked everybody if they could read and then he distributed the chapters to everyone and all started to read the chapters to complete the reading of the whole book in an hour or so. The social workers of the camp suddenly appeared and started shouting at all the Afghan refugees and asked them to get out of the room immediately. They also collected the electronic kettles and warned everybody of reporting such things to the immigration office and they will all receive negative responses to their asylum applications. The Afghan refugees stood against this action and they all came out of the room and shouted “Freedom of Religion” and “Freedom of Religion and belief is a basic human right”. The social workers of the camp said we are not going to allow such kind of religious things under the Red Cross and we will punish the organizer of this gathering. I asked all the Afghan guys to go to their rooms without further reactions. Later they sent a warning later of everybody and changed the organizer to a closed camp as a punishment.  

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